“If he was satisfied he wouldn’t have needed to look elsewhere.” “Happy people don’t cheat.” This cultural myth that lack at home leads to affairs holds everyone back. Because here’s the truth — and I work with affairs all day, every day — happy people cheat. People who are having Sx with their spouse regularly, cheat. People whose spouses care for them, handle the mental load, or are essential to their success and well being… cheat. And guess what? Sometimes the person having an affair is actua